Deciding whether or not to give up on a marriage is one of the most difficult decisions people may have to face in their lives. But it is something most married people have probably contemplated at one time or another. Between 40-50 percent of...
How to Negotiate with Your Spouse
Once the decision to divorce has been made, sooner or later you and your spouse will need to come to an agreement on various issues. This is true no matter what method of divorce you use (litigated, mediated, collaborative divorce, etc.). You may...
Should you litigate or mediate?
Different ways to divorce Just as there are different types of divorce, there are also different ways to divorce. The two main ways are litigation and mediation. Litigated divorce requires both parties to hire divorce lawyers who will prepare the...
What If My Spouse Won’t Cooperate in The Divorce Process?
No one wants to start a divorce—it’s one of the worse things that you can go through. But if you’re sure that’s what you want—what’s the alternative? Stay in an unhappy marriage for the rest of your life? That’s worse because it lasts forever. At...
How Long Does It Take to Heal After a Divorce?
Depends on the process you use to go through your divorce. If you have an attorney, it may take years to heal. My divorce happened about 30 years ago when my children were 7 and 10 years old. My ex and I each had attorneys and we fought it out...
My Spouse Did Not Want A Divorce
A client whom I’ll call John came into our office just before the holidays and he was very distressed and didn’t know what to do. He really felt that he needed to divorce but his wife did not want the divorce and she was very upset about the whole...
How To Go Through A Divorce With Dignity?
A divorce with dignity means to go through a divorce without litigation and make it as peaceful a process as possible. By doing this, you retain your own dignity, help your family move forward into their new life patterns and retain their dignity...
Should the Royal Couple Have a Prenuptial Agreement?
Well, with the upcoming “royal” wedding upon us, what do you think about them getting a prenup? According to an article on Yahoo, “In a poll currently being conducted by the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation, 66 percent of respondents have voted...
Top 5 Benefits of a Peaceful Divorce
1. You retain your dignity and are able to part not hating each other. Breaking up is hard to do whether you’ve been together for 1 year or more than 20 years; the main difference is how we choose to go through the process and ask for help. If you...
Divorce with Dignity? Really?
“No way!” he said. “Just can’t happen.” This was the response I got when I tried to explain the Divorce with Dignity Network and it’s vision to a friend, who is still reeling from the aftermath of a divorce that was final 3 years ago. I am divorced...