by Cindy Elwell | Jul 19, 2011 | Divorce Process
Depends on the process you use to go through your divorce. If you have an attorney, it may take years to heal. My divorce happened about 30 years ago when my children were 7 and 10 years old. My ex and I each had attorneys and we fought it out in court. Not just...
by Cindy Elwell | Jun 9, 2011 | Emotional Effects of Divorce
You think you want a divorce but you’re so scared that you and your family will be destroyed both financially and emotionally if you decide to move forward. You just don’t know what do and how to make the decision. You’ve been thinking about this for a long time and...
by Cindy Elwell | Jun 2, 2011 | Divorce Process
A client whom I’ll call John came into our office just before the holidays and he was very distressed and didn’t know what to do. He really felt that he needed to divorce but his wife did not want the divorce and she was very upset about the whole process. Emotions...
by Cindy Elwell | May 18, 2011 | Emotional Effects of Divorce
If I don’t sign the divorce paperwork, can I stall my divorce and should I attempt to do this? It seems to make sense that by not signing your divorce paperwork, that it will give you more time to figure out what you want to do and possibly get back together with your...
by Cindy Elwell | May 11, 2011 | Dealing with Divorce Lawyers
You an lose your integrity when you hire a divorce attorney to take advantage of your ex who has hurt you so much. You give up your dignity and self worth. Your attorney has told you that your ex will suffer, especially financially—you’ll win—you’ll get everything,...