Welcoming Vala Zarrabian, Esq.: The New Owner of Divorce With Dignity – Los Angeles
There are moments in the evolution of Divorce With Dignity when a new provider arrives who embodies the spirit, values, and heart of our mission so completely that their presence feels like the natural next chapter of our story. Today, we are honored to welcome Vala Zarrabian, Esq., the new owner of Divorce With Dignity – Los Angeles, bringing a thoughtful blend of legal experience, emotional intelligence, steady guidance, and lived understanding to families across Los Angeles County.
Vala represents what many families are searching for when they seek an alternative to adversarial divorce: a calm professional presence, clear structure, and a process that protects dignity rather than amplifying conflict.
In a city as large and diverse as Los Angeles, many families want a path forward that avoids unnecessary litigation, prolonged uncertainty, and escalating stress. Vala offers that alternative — a structured, supportive approach that combines attorney-led mediation, clear agreement drafting, and organized divorce paperwork services designed to help people move forward with clarity, stability, and respect.
A Personal Story That Inspires Her Professional Mission
Every Divorce With Dignity provider has a story behind their work — why they believe in peaceful divorce, why they choose to guide families through one of life’s most difficult transitions, and why compassion matters just as much as competence. Vala’s story is deeply personal.
As a parent raising a young autistic son, Vala understands firsthand how delicate family transitions can be. She knows the emotional weight of caregiving alongside the practical realities of building stability for a child. She understands how critical routines, predictability, and thoughtful planning are — especially when a family is restructuring into two households.
This lived experience shapes how Vala approaches her work. Clients often notice it immediately: she listens carefully, slows the process when needed, and remains grounded even when emotions run high. Her work is not just efficient or legally precise — it is human, patient, and focused on what will actually work for a family in real life.
A Legal Background Built on Clarity and Precision
Before joining Divorce With Dignity, Vala built her career as an attorney in Los Angeles, working in demanding legal environments that required organization, clear communication, and calm problem-solving under pressure. That background sharpened her ability to:
- Break complex legal concepts into plain English
- Organize financial and procedural information clearly
- Anticipate gaps or issues before they become problems
- Draft agreements and documents with precision and care
- Help clients stay grounded during stressful conversations
Today, that legal training informs her work as both an attorney mediator and a provider of structured divorce paperwork support. Families benefit from a professional who understands the legal framework of divorce while remaining committed to a non-adversarial, dignity-centered process.
Clients often describe Vala as calm, empathetic, organized, neutral, respectful, and easy to talk to — qualities that sit at the core of Divorce With Dignity’s mission.
A Neutral, Structured Approach to Divorce and Co-Parenting Decisions
Whether families choose mediation, paperwork support, or a combined approach, Vala’s work is rooted in neutrality, clarity, and balance.
When serving as a mediator, Vala does not represent either party. Instead, she facilitates structured conversations that help both people communicate more effectively, explore options, and reach agreements they can both live with. Her focus remains on forward-looking solutions, respectful dialogue, and practical outcomes — especially when children are involved.
When families are already in agreement, Vala provides organized, neutral support to prepare the California divorce paperwork required by the Court, ensuring that decisions are accurately reflected in properly prepared documents.
Flexible Paths Designed Around Real Family Needs
Families come to Divorce With Dignity – Los Angeles at different stages. Vala’s practice is intentionally designed to meet people where they are.
Paperwork Support for Those Already in Agreement
For couples who have already reached decisions, Vala offers neutral, administrative support to prepare and organize the required California divorce court forms based on the information provided. Clients receive clear checklists, structured document preparation, and guidance through filing steps so the process feels manageable and predictable.
Mediation Only
For families who still need to work through decisions, Vala offers attorney-led divorce and co-parenting mediation. In this role, she serves as a neutral facilitator, helping both parties communicate productively around parenting plans, support discussions, property and financial terms, and co-parenting logistics — without taking sides or advocating for one person over the other.
Combined Mediation + Paperwork
Many families choose a combined approach. Agreements are reached through mediation, documented clearly, and reflected accurately in court-ready paperwork. This integrated process provides continuity, reduces duplication, and helps families move from conversation to completion with steady guidance throughout.
Special Awareness for Families with Unique Child Needs
While Divorce With Dignity serves all families, Vala brings particular awareness to situations involving children with developmental differences, disabilities, or special educational or medical needs.
She understands how important it is for Parenting Plans to reflect real-life considerations such as therapies, school supports, routines, and transitions between homes. Her goal is to help families create agreements that are not only legally sound, but genuinely supportive of a child’s day-to-day stability and long-term well-being.
Carrying Forward the Legacy of Divorce With Dignity
Divorce With Dignity began in 1996, when founder Cindy Elwell opened the first office with a simple but transformative belief: divorce does not have to be destructive to be effective.
Nearly three decades later, that belief has become a national model for peaceful, respectful divorce resolution. Today, Vala carries that legacy forward in Los Angeles County — one of the most complex and diverse family law landscapes in the country.
Her practice reflects the core principles Divorce With Dignity has always stood for: clarity over chaos, neutrality over conflict, child-centered planning, and dignified transitions that allow families to move forward.
A Calmer Way Forward for Los Angeles Families
Los Angeles families often face layered challenges — demanding careers, complex finances, blended family dynamics, and the emotional strain of separation. Vala’s practice meets those realities with patience, organization, and steady guidance.
Whether a family is just beginning conversations or ready to finalize divorce paperwork, Vala helps remove confusion from the process and replace it with clarity, structure, and support.
Divorce With Dignity is proud to welcome Vala Zarrabian, Esq. as the owner of Divorce With Dignity – Los Angeles. Her combination of legal skill, mediation training, and genuine care for families makes her a natural steward of the Divorce With Dignity mission.
To learn more or schedule a consultation, visit:
losangeles.dwdignity.com
A calmer, more respectful path forward begins here.
Divorce With Dignity – Los Angeles is operated by Vala Zarrabian, Esq., Attorney Mediator.

