We’ve often spoken about how many divorcing couples mistakenly believe their separation belongs in a courtroom. This is likely because each time we see a divorce in the media, we hear horror stories about drawn-out cases where couples argue about every shared asset and try to hurt each other as much as possible.
However, the truth is, most divorces do not belong in the courtroom – and many difficult conversations can be made easier through mediation instead. This way, couples can part ways peacefully and respectfully. Not only does this give you greater peace of mind, but it also means that the costs associated with a divorce can be kept to a minimum!
Why should you consider divorce mediation?
Divorce mediation services:
- Allow you to part ways with your ex-spouse peacefully and respectfully.
- Can speed up the divorce process, giving you both the freedom to move on.
- Ensure the best interests of all involved parties are respected and considered. In custody arrangements, this also includes the children.
- Brings down the costs and stress of divorce.
Who should consider divorce mediation?
Divorce mediation services cater to those looking for a peaceful end to their relationship but still find it hard to agree on every last detail outright. For example, you may want to discuss things such as the division of assets or child custody in more detail with a neutral third party.
Does divorce mediation work?
To answer this question as simply as possible, yes. Divorce mediation works as it helps couples who may not always see eye to eye reach an agreement on complex topics in a calm, respectful manner.
How long does divorce mediation take?
According to a recent study, “the average mediation takes three to six months to finish, versus an average of two years for divorce litigation.” As a result, while this may still seem time-consuming, it considerably speeds up the overall divorce process. This is because fair decisions are made quickly, through the support of a mediator, instead of these conversations being dragged out for weeks or months on end.
How much does divorce mediation cost?
The exact cost of divorce mediation can vary, depending on how much support you require from your mediator and how long the process takes. However, this is often a more cost-effective solution than more traditional methods.
My approach to mediation.
I’ve been working as a DWD provider and divorce media for many years and have helped countless clients part ways peacefully and without bitterness.
During my interactions with clients, I work hard to make them feel comfortable and relaxed. When I step in to aid negotiations or to veer conversations onto safer ground, I’m not coming from a place of judgment but rather understanding. After all, it’s easy for emotions to take over during these conversations, and everyone’s voice must be heard. Furthermore, I’ve been through many of the same challenges my clients face myself, so I have a unique understanding of your situation.
As such, I pride myself on taking a down-to-earth, family-centric approach to mediation. This creates a relaxed atmosphere where everyone can feel at ease and get all their questions answered. We can then work together to reach a solution that benefits everyone involved
If you’d like to learn more, please do not hesitate to get in touch today.
Note: Every divorce is unique, so be sure to contact a legal professional for guidance on your unique situation.
About the Author:
Tina Taylor, Esq. is a New Mexico-licensed attorney who owns the Divorce With Dignity-Greater Albuquerque office in New Mexico. She graduated from Law School at 50 in just two years and is currently a member of the New Mexico State Bar and the United States District Court Bar.
