Welcome to Divorce With Dignity, Cory J. Flohr

Jun 11, 2025 | Colorado, Provider Spotlight

By Cindy Elwell, CEO & Founder, Divorce With Dignity Network

When you meet Cory J. Flohr, South Metro Colorado Divorce Mediator, you immediately sense it: the calm. The steadiness. The quiet confidence of someone who’s not only capable—but deeply committed to helping people through one of the hardest transitions of their lives.

It’s with great pride that I introduce Cory J. Flohr as the newest member of the Divorce With Dignity Network. Based in South Metro Colorado and serving Douglas and El Paso Counties, Cory brings a rare blend of practical skill, grounded insight, and personal experience to his work as a Certified Divorce Mediator.

And in true Divorce With Dignity fashion, Cory is more than his certifications. He’s a father. A former pilot. A public service professional. And most importantly, someone who knows firsthand what it takes to navigate divorce—not just legally, but emotionally and logistically too.

Calm in the Storm: Why Cory’s Presence Matters

Every family navigating divorce needs a steady guide. Cory J. Flohr, South Metro Colorado Divorce Mediator, is that guide. His clients benefit from a demeanor shaped by decades in high-pressure roles, including time spent advising members of Congress and piloting commercial aircraft. If you can stay calm at 30,000 feet or on the Senate floor, you can stay calm in a mediation session—and that calm is contagious.

Cory brings structure to uncertainty. His background in logistics and negotiation helps couples make clear, informed decisions, even when emotions run high. He doesn’t push. He doesn’t judge. He facilitates conversations that help people feel seen, respected, and in control.

He’s Been There—And That Changes Everything

While his professional experience is impressive, it’s Cory’s personal story that makes his work resonate so deeply. He’s lived through divorce. He’s co-parented. He’s wrestled with the hard choices and complex feelings that so many of our clients face.

That lived experience informs everything he does. Cory knows what it means to balance logic with compassion. He knows what it means to protect your child’s well-being while negotiating your own needs. And he knows that every decision made during a divorce carries weight—not just legally, but emotionally, financially, and relationally.

A Good Fit for People Who Want Clarity (Not Chaos)

One of the values we hold dear at Divorce With Dignity is that divorce doesn’t have to be a war. Cory J. Flohr embodies that belief. He works best with clients who are willing to be thoughtful, intentional, and honest—even if they don’t always agree.

He offers:

  • Full divorce mediation for couples who want to avoid court
  • Strategic divorce coaching for individuals who need guidance
  • Parenting plan development and co-parenting support
  • Divorce paperwork support for uncontested agreements

Clients appreciate his directness, organization, and the sense of peace they feel throughout the process. In a world that often pushes people toward litigation, Cory offers an alternative that feels not just practical, but deeply human.

Serving South Metro Colorado With Integrity

Cory J. Flohr, South Metro Colorado Divorce Mediator, currently serves families in Douglas and El Paso Counties. Whether you’re in Castle Rock, Colorado Springs, Parker, or Monument, you now have access to a professional mediator who brings both skill and heart to the table.

He offers remote and in-person mediation options, and always starts with a free 15-minute consultation to ensure it’s a good fit—no pressure, no commitment. Just clarity.

A Note from Me, Personally

When I created Divorce With Dignity almost 30 years ago, it was because I knew there had to be a better way. Over the years, I’ve been honored to meet professionals who are not only exceptional at what they do but who also bring the heart, integrity, and steadiness that our clients deserve.

Cory J. Flohr is exactly that kind of professional.

If you or someone you know is exploring divorce and wants to do it thoughtfully, fairly, and peacefully, I encourage you to reach out to Cory. You will be in excellent hands.

Warmly,

Cindy Elwell
Founder & CEO, Divorce With Dignity Network


Learn more about Cory J. Flohr, South Metro Colorado Divorce Mediator, and book your free consultation:
https://southmetroco.dwdignity.com

Cindy Elwell, Founder & CEO, Divorce With Dignity

Cindy Elwell

Founder, Divorce With Dignity

I believe that we are much better off making our own decisions about our private lives, instead of leaving it in the hands of the legal system.