benefits to a peaceful divorce

Top 5 Benefits of a Peaceful Divorce

1. You retain your dignity and are able to part not hating each other. Breaking up is hard to do whether you’ve been together for 1 year or more than 20 years; the main difference is how we choose to go through the process and ask for help. If you are able to get through […]

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10 Steps to Divorce Without Litigation

Well, you’ve come to the decision that you have to divorce and you really want to get through this as peacefully as possible without spending your life savings. Just remember that as long as you and your spouse are in agreement, you can pretty much do whatever you want—it’s just a matter of figuring out […]

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Divorce with Dignity? Really?

“No way!” he said. “Just can’t happen.” This was the response I got when I tried to explain the Divorce with Dignity Network and it’s vision to a friend, who is still reeling from the aftermath of a divorce that was final 3 years ago. I am divorced and in my mind, it can happen […]

How Do You Feel When You Think About Divorce?

I bet you don’t feel very good. Do you feel like a failure? Are you unhappy? Are you sad? Are you feeling frustrated? Are you feeling helpless? Are you feeling like you don’t know what to do? Well, I know you’re feeling all these things and more. These are all very natural feelings considering what […]

Are You Feeling All Alone?

Well, you certainly don’t have to do this all by yourself; there is a lot of support available to help you get through your divorce, and the support this article discusses refers to support outside the legal profession. For instance, there are divorce support groups everywhere—through your churches, hosted by therapists, singles groups, etc. Here’s […]

Hire the Meanest, Toughest Attorney and Go for Everything

First of all, I know you hate your spouse right now or you wouldn’t be thinking divorce. Okay, maybe hate is a little strong for many of us, but one of you really wants to move on and you have no choice but to go through a divorce. So why shouldn’t you hire the meanest, […]

Am I A Bad Person Because I’m Thinking of Getting a Divorce?

Wow, it’s really a tough decision to decide whether or not to divorce and it might take a long time to make this decision.  First of all, I would discuss your feelings with your spouse, and start to find answers to the following questions: How long have you had these feelings?  Have they been accumulating […]

I Fired My Attorney and Survived!

I once had an attorney ask me, “If you were on an operating table would you question what the doctor was doing?”  That sure was a great technique, and I ended up paying him a bundle.  Well, times change, and these days we even need an advocate for dealing with hospitals, doctors, etc., because no […]